Homophobia is so Gay!

This guy at my job is a huge homophobe, he’s one of those men that think that women being gay is cool, but is really bothered by gay guys. This irritates the hell out of me. First of all if you are going to be against gay people, why is it okay for women to be gay? (men and their fantasies) I find that a lot of straight men are bothered by gay guys. Not even bothered but actually get angry when gay guys are around as if they are going to get attacked or something. Now of course I have to stand up for my gay fam and defend them. So I ask him “what bothers you so much about gay men?”. He goes on to say , “it’s the way they act, they are so feminine”. He doesn’t like the “hand motions” they make when they talk or the tight clothes they wear and how they are “so extra” with everything, or that they talk with “soft voices” like they have to prove they are super gay. Smh. So I said to him, what if it bothered me how you have to come in here with your voice all deep, acting all hard like you run shit, wearing your clothes to big for your body and being all extra “manly” like you have something to prove. I mean come on, not all gay guys are flamboyant (stereotype) and some look just like regular “manly” men. Then he goes on to say that he doesn’t want a gay man looking at him and what straight men hang with gay guys?”SMH. I told him that a majority of the people that are homophobes or gay bashers are insecure with themselves or have desires they are trying to suppress and that a secure man can hang around anyone and still be secure in his manhood. SMH, Why do all homophobes think that just because you are gay, you want them? Come on people, to each their own, be comfortable enough in your own skin so that other peoples comfort doesn’t bother you.